The world is full of confusing messages about relationships and intimacy.
And if you grew up somewhere that treated desire like a wild animal—lock it up, don’t make eye contact, and for the love of God, don’t talk about it—this stuff can be extra tricky.
If that feels familiar, you’re not alone. But you have a right to joyful and fulfilling intimacy and relationships!
We can untangle it together.
I’ll help you unlearn the weird rules, figure out what you actually want, and start asking for it—
without feeling like you’re about to get in trouble.
Here’s how that might look, depending on your personal story:
You’ve been told that certain desires are wrong, dangerous, or even sinful – but that no longer feels true and you’re ready to EXPLORE!
For too long, you’ve had to suppress essential parts of yourself because you were told they were unacceptable. Now, you’re starting to wonder—what if those desires aren’t bad at all? What if they’re natural, valid, and even beautiful?
I’ll help you unpack the shame, reconnect with your true desires,
and explore them in a way that feels safe, empowered, and right for you.
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You’ve been so busy following the rules that you never had time, space, or energy to ask, What do I actually want? NOW IS THAT TIME!
You spent years trying to stay on the “right” path, following the rules laid out for you. Now that you’re questioning those rules, you realize your wants, needs, and dreams were completely neglected.
I’ll help you get clear on what you truly want—free from guilt, shame, or outside expectations—so you can start living life on your own terms.
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You’ve left Purity Culture (or other high-control environments*) but it hasn’t completely left you. You’re ready to stop sabotaging your own happiness.
Even though you’ve physically left behind the environment that shaped you, its beliefs still show up in how you think about yourself, your relationships, and your worth. You’re ready to move forward—but something keeps getting in your way.
I’ll help you uncover the hidden ways those old beliefs still affect you, so you can finally break free and step into the happiness you deserve.
* High-control environments include Purity Culture, narcissistic homes, cults, and other childhood situations that instill fear, demand strict obedience, and make self-trust feel impossible.
Develop your communication skills
You learned that putting yourself first makes you selfish (or even evil), but you’re ready to loosen the binds and start creating some boundaries that GIVE YOU LIFE!
You were taught that a “good” person is selfless, always putting others first (regardless of gender). But now you see how that belief has drained you, leaving you exhausted and disconnected from yourself. You’re ready to set boundaries—but where do you start?
I’ll help you build boundaries that protect your energy, honor your needs, and allow you to thrive—without guilt or fear.
Explore your turn-ons
You’ve heard that intimacy should be beautiful, exciting, and bonding. But it’s always felt more like an obligation. I’ll help you find the joy!
You were taught that intimacy was something you owed, not something you got to enjoy – and this can be just as true for men as it is for women. Even if you want a fulfilling intimate life, it’s hard to shake the feeling that it’s a duty rather than a desire.
I’ll help you rewrite your relationship with intimacy, so it becomes something you choose—with joy, enthusiasm, and full agency.
Get FAST personalized help
A deep dive into your relationship with yourself and others, where I give you personal feedback on what is keeping you from the love and intimacy you desire. Get tailored solutions to heal your relationship with sex, desire, and connection.
Saying yes feels scary and saying no feels dangerous, so you just let things happen even if you don’t want them. We’ll help you get in touch with your REAL desires and boundaries.
You weren’t given the tools to make empowered choices. Instead, you learned that saying yes could have consequences and saying no could be risky—so you stopped making choices at all.
I’ll help you embrace the truth that your needs matter, guide you in advocating for yourself, and support you in creating a life where your desires take center stage.
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Not sure if coaching is right for you? I recorded these coaching sessions so you can hear exactly what it’s like to work with me!
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You’re ready for your needs and desires to be the priority they should have been from the beginning.
You’ve spent years believing that your wants and needs were secondary—if they mattered at all. No more waiting for permission to take up space. It’s time to claim what you deserve!
I’ll help you embrace the truth that your needs matter, guide you in advocating for yourself, and support you in creating a life where your desires take center stage.
