Sex and Intimacy Coaching with Leah

Explore new aspects of your sexuality without fear of shame or judgment

Are you aching to explore new vistas of your sexuality, but not sure how to proceed?

Afraid that your desires aren’t “Normal”?

Afraid that you’ll have to blow up your existing relationship to have the kind of sex you want?

When you work with me, I promise to help you feel safe exploring new realms of your sexuality.

I promise that your sexuality is not shameful, and together we will help you to see yourself without judgment.

Coaching with me:

Sex was an incredibly difficult subject for me most of my life.

I craved great sex, but hated sex when I was having it – it was often painful and always boring.

But I was certain that I was the only one, so I didn’t talk with my friends about it. I didn’t want to see their looks of horror or pity.

At age 42, I had a profound sexual awakening (you can read that story here) and discovered that MOST OF US think we’re the only one with questions / fears / fantasies about sex.

That’s why I love coaching others through their process of discovery – I want you to have a place to ask questions and get support from someone who has been there and can walk beside you as you explore your inherent, authentic sexuality.

I’d love to help you work on these things! Scroll down for options.

Our work together is entirely client-led – I’m not here to tell you what’s right and what’s wrong or feed you any answers. 

Instead, I’m going to lead you in discovering what’s right FOR YOU and then help you explore it in a way that takes into account your individual emotional needs, your specific boundaries, and the pace that’s right for YOUR nervous system. Going too fast can send you into shut down, while going too slow can be infuriating and exhausting! The goal is to find the right pace FOR YOU!

My favorite clients are people who are motivated to explore new realms of their sexuality:

  • Learning how to talk about your sexual desires with current or future partners
  • Questioning if you might not be straight
  • Challenging body image insecurity in sexual relationships
  • Dipping your toes into kink
  • Exploring consensual non-monogamy
  • Exploring your sexuality for later-in-life virgins
  • Recovering from infidelity
  • And more!

I am queer, kinky, and non-monogamy positive.

Leah Carey

TRAINING:
I trained as a coach for two years with Iyanla Vanzant at the Inner Visions Institute and received my coaching certification from the School of Coaching Mastery in 2013.

WORKING WITH ME IS FOR YOU IF:

  • you are longing for more satisfaction in your current sex life;
  • you are seeking new adventures with your current partner;
  • you are single and yearning for confidence in attracting potential sex partners;
  • you are interested in taking small risks, knowing that I will be here to walk beside you;
  • you are self-motivated and excited to do the work!

WORKING WITH ME IS NOT FOR YOU IF:

  • you are in a relationship that includes addiction, violence, anger issues, or other toxic behavior – those behaviors need to be dealt with before you address sex;
  • you are still in the depths of processing sexual and/or relationship trauma – my work is trauma-informed, but I am not a trauma specialist and cannot process you through the trauma itself
  • you are unable to engage in ANY type of sexual touch – I recommend that you seek out a sexological body worker or a somatic sex coach
  • you are seeking instruction on specific sexual activities – I’m happy to refer you to trusted colleagues who offer these services

We will remain clothed during our conversations and I will not participate in any sexy chat or activities with you.

The details

Based on your available time and budget, you can choose how many sessions to book each month. They all include exactly the same care and support. 

All coaching packages include:

  • My undivided attention during our 45-minute Zoom sessions (they sometimes run long)
  • Session recordings so you have them to refer back to at your convenience
  • Support via email between sessions
  • Personalized homework to keep you moving forward and getting the most out of our work together
  • Automatic monthly billing so you don't have to enter your billing information every time!
  • For individuals or couples

Financial considerations

I have a limited number of sliding scale slots available – I believe this work is deeply important and should be available to all, regardless of your financial situation (click here to read my philosophy.)

Find out if we're a good fit for each other

2 sessions

$ 300
month
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3 sessions

$ 450
month
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4 sessions

$ 600
month
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Not sure if coaching is right for you?

I recorded these coaching sessions so you can hear exactly what it’s like to work with me.

Don’t worry – I will never share YOUR coaching sessions! These clients knew in advance we were recording specifically for the purpose of sharing.

Individual sessions:
Couples session:
Leah's mixture of gentle accountability, curiosity, nonjudgment, and ability to hold space is remarkable. I feel safe, seen, understood, validated, and celebrated in her care.
Leah made me feel supported and safe to share my deepest thoughts, fears, and questions around sex. I didn’t realize how much I’d been keeping things to myself.
Leah pushed me with amazing questions, narrowing in on the exact desires and boundaries that were FOR me.
Leah made it safe for me to get down to specifics. Once I knew exactly what I wanted, I could ask my partner. Now I don’t have sex without that communication first.
Leah helped me in having difficult conversations with my partner to discuss how to get both our needs met. She helped with best timing for conversations, how to articulate what I really needed, and supported me with sensitivity and care. I know I would have continued to put off having these important conversations without her support.
I have worked with therapists on and off for decades and I feel like I've gotten more out of working with Leah for one month than I have in most of my therapy combined. I'm so grateful!
I didn't think I "needed" a sex coach, and didn't quite feel comfortable with the idea of having one. I'm so glad I took the leap, because the space she's held for me and what I've learned has been profoundly impactful and transformative.
After 15 years of sex-on-my-period being 100% off the table because I thought I would be judged, I did it today. Thank you for having open and honest conversations that made me realize if we were both on board, nothing about it was wrong, and no one was going to judge me but me.
Since I started working with Leah, I’ve practiced enforcing boundaries and staying in touch with my feelings and needs when talking to people on different apps.
Working with Leah has not only helped my understanding of how I show up to sexual and romantic relationships, but even with platonic relationships and my relationship with myself.
Learning to communicate well about such intimate things as desire and consent have changed my life and the way I interact with my partner and the broader world.
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