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More with Dr. Lakin - online extras
By Leah Carey
July 19, 2016
We asked Dr. Lakin about how, with such a varied background, he ended up specializing in palliative care. His answer has a lot to tell us about how doctors are trained.
Here is our conversation (edited for length and clarity).
Leah Carey: Did you get any training in med school about death?
Joshua Lakin: No. Not that I remember. I got a lot in residency.
LC: That seems like a huge hole.
JL: It’s a huge hole. The students that I’m working with now at Harvard, they get more training in this. But it still is a hole. I guess the challenge is, when is the right time? And I still don’t know the answer to this.
Is it early in med school before you’ve had a chance to see what the clinical world is like and what disease is like? Or is it during residency when you are in it and watching it and experiencing it?
Probably intern year, or first year of clinical training. Or late in medical school, to get people an experience with that process. Because it’s a normal experience for most clinicians, they’re going to be treating people who are going through the dying process.
For me, residency was the right time.
LC: What was your training in residency like?
JL: I got a lot of teaching from the palliative care team about how to talk about death, what normal death looks like. How to sit with the family with it. And this was even before my fellowship training. So I was comfortable going into the room with a dying patient by the end of my residency, and sitting with them and talking with them, and assessing what was happening with that person in terms of their dying process and telling the family what I saw, what was going on.
We have medical students who rotate through our palliative care unit in Boston, which is great. At the University of California at San Francisco where I trained, the palliative care rotation was the most popular medical student rotation.
LC: Why was it so popular?
JL: Your initial clinical years in medical school are just a trip. You go from very heavy reading and studying and test taking, and then all of a sudden you get thrown into this world that is just crazy in its intensity and its vulnerability. You just go in there and you’re supposed to keep learning, but you bear witness to a lot of suffering. I think it sings to them after all they’ve seen.
So to get a rotation that is essentially focused on suffering and trying to find ways to relieve that, my guess is that it spoke to some of the stresses they were experiencing. It gave them some tools in dealing with it themselves, and also dealing with it with their patients.
Full article listing
- Prologue - Mother's Day
- Part 1 - Making Peace With Death During Life
- Part 1a - Creating an environment for a peaceful death
- Part 2 - Musical Pharmaceuticals
- Part 2a - More Musical Pharmaceuticals
- Part 3 - When helping people to die is your work
- Part 3a - Death through the eyes of nurses
- Part 4 - It's always too soon until it's too late
- Part 4a - Advanced directives in an ICU
- Part 5 - I just can't keep from singing
- Part 5a - A heart-to-heart connection
- Part 6 - What we need to know when we help our loved ones to die
- Part 6a - More with Dr. Lakin
- Part 7 - Doctor/patient communication
- Part 7a - Holding two possibilities
- Part 8 - The language of death
- Part 8a - Discovering the patient's goals
- Part 9 - A death midwife
- Part 9a - End-of-life guides
- Part 10 - Signposts of dying
- Part 10a - Signposts in action
- Part 11 - Being a good patient advocate
- Part 11a - Behind the hospital curtain
- Part 12 - Home funerals
- Part 12a - Why embalming?
- Part 13 - End-of-life utterances
- Part 14 - Ongoing end-of-life treatment
- Part 15 - Beyond the statistics
- Part 16 - What doctors want at the end of life
- Part 16a - Doctor survey results
- Part 17 - Doctors talk about end of life
- Part 18 - How to be with someone who is dying
- Part 18a - Local hospice founder
- Part 19 - No regrets
- Part 20 - Do no harm during death
- Part 20a - Becoming a palliative care doctor
- Part 21 - Helping a child to die
- Part 22 - Helping a child to die, pt 2
- Part 22a - Marital stress when a child is dying
- Part 23 - Caregiver exhaustion
- Part 24 - A family's journey with disease
- Part 25 - Teaching the next generation
- Part 26 - A year of Living With Dying