Episode 14 – Shana
Welcome to Season 2 of Good Girls Talk About Sex!
Shana is a 41-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as biracial (half black/half white), heterosexual, monogamous and currently in a relationship.
Major themes explored in this episode include healing from old hurts, learning about consent, and discovering our own pleasure, rather than just focusing on pleasing our partner.
- 3:35 – How she came to relate running late to eroticism
- 9:48 – Her first sexual experience, and how it conditioned her to not trust white men
- 18:38 – The moment Shana first had intercourse and why it was so devastating … and why she pretended it was okay
- 21:30 – Why Shana has never felt comfortable calling that experience rape
- 27:27 – The expectation that women are supposed to please their partner and not ask for anything
- 28:18 – The conversation she had with her current lover after their first time having sex
- 32:00 – How tenderness and masculinity go hand-in-hand
- 34:30 – The Quick Five
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- At the $5/month level, an extended conversation with Shana about how two men decided whether or not she had been raped, and how listening to other women tell their #MeToo stories has helped her
- At the $7/month level, that conversation plus an extra 12 minutes of Q&A
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Editor – Gretchen Kilby
Music by – Nazar Rybak