Tie Me, Spank Me, Talk Dirty to Me

On-demand video

An entire world of activities, dynamics, and desires is often grouped under four little letters:

BDSM

But those letters only scratch the surface. BDSM can include a wide range of experiences, power dynamics, sensations, and styles of connection — and there’s also plenty of spicy, playful fun that doesn’t fit neatly under that umbrella at all. If you’re curious, intrigued, or feeling a little overwhelmed by what it all means, you’re not alone.

This class starts from ground zero. No assumptions. No prior knowledge required.

Leah walks you through the foundational concepts behind BDSM and adjacent forms of erotic play, explaining the language people use, what those terms actually mean, and how different interests can show up in real life.

Think of it as learning the map and the language before deciding where — or whether — you want to go.

In this class we cover:

• What activities do the four letters describe?
• Discovering what excites you;
• Consent conversations and establishing boundaries;
• Safe words and testing your limits;
• Introducing the idea of spicy fun to your partner

This will be great for you if:

• you’ve been wanting to explore some spicy activities with your partner but want guidance on how to do it safely;
• you’re just starting to consider what your interests are;
• you want to help destigmatize the spicy community by busting myths with reliable information

Want an even fuller experience?
This product is included in:

• Playful Kink Starter bundle