Yes / No / Maybe checklist

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The YES / NO / MAYBE LIST is your essential tool for navigating desires and boundaries with clarity and confidence.

This is your go-to tool to get on the same page with a partner, discover turn-ons you didn’t know you shared, and spark fresh, exciting conversations. Whether you’re looking to shake things up or dive deeper into what turns each other on, this checklist is for you.

This guide provides a structured approach to discussing desires, ensuring that both you and your partner are on the same page.

The list is broken down into multiple sections:

• Kissing
• Cuddling
• Types of touch
• Ways of connecting
• Types of genital touch
• Positions
• Activities that could leave marks
• Variations of sexy play
• Power play
• Impact play
• Erotica
• Public play
• Interaction with fluids
• Barriers
• Technology
• Substance use
• Other considerations