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I want sex a lot more often than my partner does. We love each other and want to stay together. How do we navigate our mismatched libidos?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI’m afraid some of my sexual desires might be immoral or deviant. Can you help me figure out what is okay and what isn't?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsWe’ve been together for a long time and we’ve become disconnected over the years. Is it possible to breathe life back into a long-term relationship?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI’ve never had success dating and I know I’m not everyone’s cup of tea. What if I’m so weird that nobody every wants me?
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I really want someone to whisper dirty nothings in my ear, but I’m afraid I’d be too shy to say anything in return. What should I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsThere are so many sexy things I’ve never had the chance to try and now I can! Where do I begin with exploring these long-held desires?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI don’t feel ashamed of having sex with lots of people, but I’m beginning to wonder if it’s what I actually want or if it's a compulsion. How do I stop?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI love my family but they keep interfering in my relationship. It’s hurtful to me and my partner. What can I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI grew up in a religious home where the rules around sex were strict. I left that behind, but I think I have a lot of incorrect information and beliefs. How do I start unlearning them?
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I think I'm getting in the way of my own happiness. No matter how good things are in my relationship, I overthink everything. How do I relax and let myself be happy?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI missed a lot of things in my younger years. Am I too old to catch up on all the fun sexy stuff I watched my friends have?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsShould I encourage my partner to see a doctor about their libido? I’ve tried all sorts of things to help them have a higher libido, but nothing works.
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsWhen my family or friends criticize my choices, my partner, or our relationship, it hurts more than I want them to know. How do I get them to stop?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI’ve had a crush on someone for a long time. Today I found out they might like me back and suddenly I realize – I’m so used to chasing them, I have no idea what to do if I catch them! Help!
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I’ve been hurt so many times, I don’t know how to let someone in anymore. How do I take down some of the walls so I can have a healthy relationship?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI keep choosing partners who aren’t good for me, then I get terribly hurt when they treat me poorly. Why do I do this?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsSometimes I’d rather masturbate than have sex with my partner. Is that bad?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI want to ask my partner for something new, but I’m afraid it will upset them or make them feel inadequate. What do I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI see one night stands as no morally better or worse than long term relationships, but I'm clearly in the minority. Am I missing something?
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I’ve been rejected so many times that I don’t even try anymore. Is there hope for me?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsWe’re in a rut. How do I get my partner excited to try new and different kinds of sex?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI want to explore some kinky things. How do I begin?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI get so in my head that I over-analyze EVERYTHING my partner says and does, and it causes problems in my relationships. How do I stop doing this?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI’m finally feeling comfortable with who I am, but people in my life don't approve. I want to set boundaries, but I’m afraid that might drive them away entirely. What should I do?
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I think I would die of embarrassment if I had to talk to my partner about what I want in bed. How do people learn to do it?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI feel like a doormat – I do everything for everyone and I barely get anything in return. How do I let my partner know that I need more?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI would like to date, but I think I might be invisible. I’m a good person and reasonably attractive – why doesn’t anybody see me?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI know that I need better boundaries in relationships, but I have no idea how to start developing them. What's the secret?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsWhenever clothes come off with someone, I just go along with whatever they want even if it's not something I really want. Is that a problem?
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Sex has always been blah. Am I too old and set in my ways to have the experiences I want?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsAnxiety gets the better of me, especially in the bedroom. I wish all the voices in my head would just shut up! What do I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI left Purity Culture, but I don’t think it’s left me. I still feel guilty when I have sex and judge myself for things I no longer believe. What can I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI’ve kept myself small my whole life, afraid to attract attention. How do I start taking up more space?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI want more sex than my partner does. Is there a way for me to help them want more, or am I forever destined to have a ton of pent-up sexual energy?
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Sometimes I wonder if I’m following my own desires, or if I’ve unthinkingly adopted what other people told me I should want. How do I figure that out?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI love my partner and we have a great relationship except in the bedroom. I’m so bored I could scream. What do I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsI want an exciting dating and sex life, but instead everything feels dull and gray. I’m not sure how to get out of this rut. What can I do?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsMy best friend says that I settle for scraps in relationships and I need to expect more from people. But I don’t attract a lot of attention, so shouldn’t I be grateful for what I get?
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Add RecommendationAdd TagsView All Assigned TagsWhen somebody offers me sex, I almost always say yes … even when I already know it’s sex that won’t be good or that I don’t want. Why do I keep doing that?
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Nomi is finally ready to be fully Nomi …but does she have to lose people she loves to be the truest version of herself?
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