Sex and Intimacy Coaching with Leah

Explore new aspects of your sexuality without fear of shame or judgment

Leah Carey in a sequined top

Are you aching to explore new vistas of your sexuality, but not sure how to proceed?

Afraid that your desires aren’t “Normal”?

Afraid that you’ll have to blow up your existing relationship to have the kind of sex you want?

When you work with me, I promise to help you feel safe exploring new realms of your sexuality.

I promise that your sexuality is not shameful, and together we will help you to see yourself without judgment.

If you’re experiencing financial difficulty
check out my financial inclusivity plans here ⇒

Coaching with me:

Sex was an incredibly difficult subject for me most of my life. I craved great sex, but hated sex when I was having it – it was often painful and always boring. But I was certain that I was the only one, so I didn’t talk with my friends about it. I didn’t want to see their looks of horror or pity. At age 42, I had a profound sexual awakening (you can read that story here) and discovered that MOST OF US think we’re the only one with questions / fears / fantasies about sex. That’s why I love coaching others through their process of discovery – I want you to have a place to ask questions and get support from someone who has been there and can walk beside you as you explore your inherent, authentic sexuality. I’d love to help you work on these things! Scroll down for options.

Our work together is entirely client-led – I’m not here to tell you what’s right and what’s wrong or feed you any answers. 

Instead, I’m going to lead you in discovering what’s right FOR YOU and then help you explore it in a way that takes into account your individual emotional needs, your specific boundaries, and the pace that’s right for YOUR nervous system. Going too fast can send you into shut down, while going too slow can be infuriating and exhausting! The goal is to find the right pace FOR YOU!

My favorite clients are people who are motivated to explore new realms of their sexuality:

  • Learning how to talk about your sexual desires with current or future partners
  • Questioning if you might not be straight
  • Challenging body image insecurity in sexual relationships
  • Dipping your toes into kink
  • Exploring consensual non-monogamy
  • Exploring your sexuality for later-in-life virgins
  • Recovering from infidelity
  • And more!

I am queer, kinky, and non-monogamy positive.

Leah Carey smiling lying in a bed with black and white sheets

Leah Carey

I trained as a coach for two years with Iyanla Vanzant at the Inner Visions Institute and received my coaching certification from the School of Coaching Mastery in 2013.



We will remain clothed during our conversations and I will not participate in any sexy chat or activities with you.

The details

Based on your available time and budget, you can choose how many sessions to book each month. They all include exactly the same care and support. 

All coaching packages include:


$ 150
per session
  • Minimum 2 sessions per month

Financial inclusivity

If you’re experiencing financial difficulty check out my financial inclusivity plans here ⇒

Not sure if coaching is right for you?

I recorded these coaching sessions so you can hear exactly what it’s like to work with me.

Don’t worryI will never share YOUR coaching sessions! These clients knew in advance we were recording specifically for the purpose of sharing.

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What clients are saying ...

Working with Leah has not only helped my understanding of how I show up to sexual and romantic relationships, but even with platonic relationships and my relationship with myself.

Leah's mixture of gentle accountability, curiosity, nonjudgment, and ability to hold space is remarkable. I feel safe, seen, understood, validated, and celebrated in her care.

Learning to communicate well about such intimate things as desire and consent have changed my life and the way I interact with my partner and the broader world.

Who is your SEX & RELATIONSHIP alter ego? Take the quiz and find out!