The STARS Talk is a framework that helps you have a meaningful and intimate, consent-based discussion prior to having sex with a new (or established) partner
I’m a certified STARS facilitator, and I frequently help clients to build their own STARS talks.
Below are Good Girls Talk About Sex episodes featuring real-life people having STARS talks.
A STARS conversation between people having sex for the first time
- What is the STARS conversation?
- STARS creator Dr. Evelin Dacker explains sex positivity and the lack of accurate sexual knowledge in public health
- An explanation of each of the letters in the STARS acronym
- Leah demonstrates a full STARS talk with her friend Ray.
A STARS conversation between an established couple
Samara and Caleb have the STARS talk. They’ve been in a relationship for 10 months of serious dating, ready to move in together, and already having good sex. Even so, they uncover several things that surprise them and will help them up-level their sex life.