Vibrators changed my life – Jazz

Jazz is a 31-year-old gender non-conforming, femme-identified person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!

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Year One Finale – Q&A extravaganza!

It’s been a year! In this final episode of 2019, we revisit some of our most popular conversations so far. Much of this material ended up on the cutting room floor the first time around, so it’s all-new content for regular listeners!

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I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa

Lisa grew up as an elite-level gymnast, so she had a heightened awareness of her body in the world from an early age. Her first marriage was with a good man who she had no sexual chemistry with, and she ended up having many affairs. Today she is in a monogamous long-distance relationship where they are exploring new fantasies and finding lots of ways to keep the sex alive between visits!

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Secrets are complicated – Sarah

Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. Today she is married and we talk about the physical difficulties she has with sex and how she and her husband work around them.

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A throbbing in my nether regions – Michelle

Michelle was attracted to males early in life, but those feelings cooled and she came out as a lesbian. Her wife of 17 years is the love of her life, but their physical relationship has always been difficult. Recently Michelle met a man who brought her sexual feelings roaring back to life, causing her to question her sexuality.

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The funny one, not the pretty one – Erin

Erin is a queer woman who deals with OCD, has tattoos that help her love her body, and has always seen herself as the “funny one” not the “pretty one.” This is a really fun conversation that you don’t want to miss!

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