I lied about orgasms every time – Brianna (part 1)

Brianna grew up in the Baptist church where she learned that sex was sinful. In the first of a 2-part episode, Brianna talks about her childhood sexual explorations with other little girls, her unfortunate first relationship with a boy, and the beginning of her relationship with her husband, including their recent introduction into the world of swinging.

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I’ve had two abortions and zero regrets – Timari

Timari wanted to share her history with abortion because it hadn’t been addressed much on the show yet. Along the way, we also talk about being raised in the Mormon church, being in an abusive marriage and cheating, and her sex life with her current husband.

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I had to get drunk to have sex – Tenisha

Tenisha is a 29-year-old, cis-gender woman who describes herself as black, heterosexual, monogamous, average body type, currently in a relationship, and Christian. A few months ago, Tenisha interviewed me for…

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Vibrators changed my life – Jazz

Jazz is a gender non-conforming person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. The major theme of this episode is gender. Jazz talks about how genitals are not the be-all-end-all of gender. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!

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Year One Finale – Q&A extravaganza!

It’s been a year! In this final episode of 2019, we revisit some of our most popular conversations so far. Much of this material ended up on the cutting room floor the first time around, so it’s all-new content for regular listeners!

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I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa

Lisa grew up as an elite-level gymnast, so she had a heightened awareness of her body in the world from an early age. Her first marriage was with a good man who she had no sexual chemistry with, and she ended up having many affairs. Today she is in a monogamous long-distance relationship where they are exploring new fantasies and finding lots of ways to keep the sex alive between visits!

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Secrets are complicated – Sarah

Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. Today she is married and we talk about the physical difficulties she has with sex and how she and her husband work around them.

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