Vibrators changed my life – Jazz

Jazz is a 31-year-old gender non-conforming, femme-identified person who uses the pronouns “they” and “theirs”. If all of the recent talk about gender as a spectrum has you confused or uncomfortable, this is the episode to listen to!

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Year One Finale – Q&A extravaganza!

It’s been a year! In this final episode of 2019, we revisit some of our most popular conversations so far. Much of this material ended up on the cutting room floor the first time around, so it’s all-new content for regular listeners!

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I had sex with a lot of people while I was married – Lisa

Lisa grew up as an elite-level gymnast, so she had a heightened awareness of her body in the world from an early age. Her first marriage was with a good man who she had no sexual chemistry with, and she ended up having many affairs. Today she is in a monogamous long-distance relationship where they are exploring new fantasies and finding lots of ways to keep the sex alive between visits!

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Secrets are complicated – Sarah

Through her teens and early 20s, Sarah dated MUCH older men. She talks about the pressures she felt and how the power differentials in those relationships worked. Today she is married and we talk about the physical difficulties she has with sex and how she and her husband work around them.

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Sex is like Domino’s Pizza – Margot

Margot is in a relationship with a man who lives in another country. While they find ample time to spend together, they’ve decided to keep their relationship open. This allows Margot to not only have companionship between their visits, she also can have sexual relations with women.

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